All of which sounds sensible enough, but as someone coming up on 15 years of marriage, I’ve always found this advice to be essentially useless. Despite the careful phrasing, the underlying tone of ...

"The notion that you can save your marriage just by learning to communicate more sensitively is probably the most widely held misconception about happy marriages...." —John Gottman (1999) Improving ...

The \"bird theory\" highlights how small, everyday moments of shared attention, like pointing out a bird, are crucial for relationship success. Inspired ...

Divorce often feels like a bolt from the blue. However, some experts believe the storm was predictable. Psychologist John Gottman even believes he has identified the behaviors that most often lead to ...