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Creating unbreakable trust in a relationship means showing up for each other, through the highs and the lows. It’s about celebrating their joys and standing steady in their struggles.Unshakable trust isn’t about perfection; it’s about effort. Life’s commitments and challenges can make it hard to show up every single time, but it’s the consistent intention to be there when it matters most. Explore what it means to create trust that stands the test of time: https://bit.ly/4fSEh7S | The Gottman Ins
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Dr. John Gottman explains why he avoids the term "toxic relationships." Instead of labels, he emphasizes identifying specific challenges and finding constructive ways to address them. While some relationships may require immediate intervention, many thrive when couples understand root issues and apply proven methods for connection and repair. Looking for more guidance? Visit gottman.com to explore our blog, filled with articles on all types of relationships. This post is not intended to address
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💬 Some couples avoid conflict to keep the peace, staying silent to prevent escalation. But unspoken tension doesn’t just fade. It builds. Gottman Certified Therapist Julie Sharon-Wagschal explains what happens when conflict goes unaddressed and why open communication is key. | The Gottman Institute
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Dr. John Gottman describes trust as being built in “sliding door” moments, those everyday decisions where you choose to turn toward your partner or pull away. In a healthy, supportive relationship, partners choose each other every day, fostering love and intentionally nurturing their connection. This foundation is a key pillar of The Gottman Institute’s Sound Relationship House. What does commitment mean to you? https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relatio
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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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In this clip, Dr. John Gottman explains that it’s not really about having too many bids for connection. The real problem is when only one person’s bids seem to count. Your needs matter just as much as your partner’s. “Can we talk for a few minutes?” is a bid. “Can you sit with me?” is a bid. “I need 30 minutes to myself” is a bid too. You’re allowed to ask for connection. You’re allowed to ask for space. Both are valid, and both deserve to be heard. | The Gottman Institute
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Real connection is built in small moments of appreciation. In our upcoming Art and Science of Love workshop, Certified Gottman Therapists Faith Drew and George Bitar guide couples through research-based tools that strengthen friendship and emotional safety. Watch as they demonstrate one of the core practices, Fondness and Admiration, in action. Then join us live on July 26 and 27 to experience the full workshop from home. Learn more: https://bit.ly/44yWGC9 | The Gottman Institute
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Have you turned toward your partner's bids for connection lately? Love grows during the grind of everyday life. It’s the seemingly meaningless little moments of connection that are the most meaningful of all. | The Gottman Institute
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The spark might draw you in, but it doesn’t make love last. Dr. John Gottman’s research shows that lasting relationships aren’t about never fighting. They’re about how you communicate, how you handle conflict, and how you respond to bids for connection. Pay attention to patterns, not just moments. 💌 Want expert-backed dating tips sent straight to your inbox? Sign up for Singles Snapshot: https://bit.ly/3BvFdwx | The Gottman Institute
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We’ve noticed something simple in the happiest relationships: they create small traditions they can count on. Relationship rituals are repeated, meaningful moments that couples give special meaning to over time, and that consistency builds connection and security. They can be formal (holidays you make your own) or informal (reconnecting when you get home, a Sunday drive, a weekly breakfast). Want a simple place to start? Try these 3 questions together this week: What did you like about this week
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When stress hits, the strongest couples lean in, not out. Teamwork builds trust. It’s about thinking for two, not just one. It means showing up for each other, even when life gets messy. Being part of a team means having each other’s backs, staying connected, and finding a way through the tough moments together. Watch John and Julie share how couples can function well under pressure and support each other when it counts most. Catch the full conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pFPh3b51bmA |
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Introducing Gottman Card Decks, a free relationship app from The Gottman Institute. With 14 decks and over 1,000 cards, this fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship. Download for free: https://www.gottman.com/couples/apps/ | The Gottman Institute
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You can feel lonely even when you’re in love. It’s more common than you think, and it doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. Dr. Julie Gottman shares what to say when that distance creeps in: “I’ve been missing you lately. Can we talk about ways to feel more connected?” It’s small check-ins like this that help love last. 💬 Watch the full conversation now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PtMsDPjpkKE | The Gottman Institute
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